Friday, June 28, 2013

Cambodia overview

Chum reap sour! "Hello" in Khmer was one of the few phrases I picked up during my time in Cambodia.  I have been back in the States for almost a week now although it doesn't seem like that much time because of the jetlag.   Thank you to all of you who prayed for me and my team! Please continue to pray for the country of Cambodia and the incredible staff at the Hard Places Community.  As you will hopefully begin to understand, there are many challenges they face every day but we must cling to what scripture tells us in Psalm 10:17-18:
"Lord, you know the hopes of the helpless.  Surely you will hear their cries and comfort them.  You will bring justice to the orphans and the oppressed, so mere people can no longer terrify them."

I wanted to give you a brief overview of what my trip looked like and I will post some other stories or things I learned over the next several days.

After 30 or so hours of traveling, we arrived in Phnom Penh late Friday night.  On Saturday, we headed out fairly early to visit the Choeung Ek Genocidal Center, also known as the Killing Fields.  In case you are not familiar with the history of Cambodia, the Khmer Rouge took over the Cambodian government in 1975.  They were led by Pol Pot and believed in a completely agrarian society void of any outside, especially Western, influences.  Their goal was to be a completely self-sustaining nation and any one who posed a threat or even seemed to pose a threat was viciously murdered using whatever tools they could find.  All of the cities were evacuated and everyone was sent to work at various camps throughout the countryside where they learned to suppress their emotions and individualism or else risk their lives.  Over 2 million people died during the four years of the Khmer Rouge regime.  The memorial center we visited is the site of several of the almost 300 mass gravesites around the country where bodies were deposited.  Our visit to the Killing Fields was very difficult but it was necessary to help us understand the people of Cambodia.


                     Mass grave of 400 victims


Killing Tree against which executioners beat children (before throwing them into the mass grave site found next to the tree where 100 naked women and children were found).

The sharp edges of this palm tree were often used to cut the throats of  victims.


This is a memorial stupa and from far away it kind of just looks like a normal building or perhaps part of a museum.
The inside of the stupa, however, holds over 9,000 skulls that were found in the Killing Fields.


On Sunday, we had the privilege of worshiping at New Life Fellowship Church which has a large congregation made up of both Khmer members and foreigners.  New Life has church plants in various provinces in Cambodia and truly believes in serving and spreading the love of Christ throughout the Buddhist country.  Many of the Hard Places Community staff members attend and are heavily involved at New Life and most of them came to Christ after participating in the free English classes the church offers. 

Since I mentioned the staff, I will go ahead and tell you a little about them.  Hard Places has almost 30 people on full time staff with 80% of them being Khmer.  God truly amazed me by the work that they do day in and day out.  They are so passionate as they work with kids who have such heartbreaking stories and they seek the Lord’s calling in everything that they do.  We had the opportunity to get to know several of them on a pretty personal level and it was incredible to hear how the Lord brought them to Hard Places and to watch them being used in magnificent ways for God’s glory.  Most of them are between the ages of 18 and 22 and all have excellent English skills that they continue to work on through night classes.  
Chhoengka and Borey worked with us on the River Front every day.  They truly have a heart for these kids!

Panha (20) and Veasna (21) are the head counselor and social worker (respectively) for Hard Places and do a phenomenal job.  The little girl is the director's adopted Cambodian daughter.

By Monday we were fairly accustomed to the 12 hour time difference and were not as terrified riding in a tuk-tuk or crossing the street amidst the crazy Cambodian drivers.  Our daily schedule for the week looked pretty similar each day.  In the morning, we were working at the Boys Center that Hard Places started two years ago.  There are between 60 and 80 boys between the ages of two and seventeen that come to the center on any given day and they all live within walking distance of the center.  The center provides a safe place for them to play, learn English, and hear about Jesus.  Their day is structured around rotations to English class, computer, playroom, and discipleship.  Our team assisted the Hard Places staff and led discipleship each day.  Two of our team members are dancers and so they choreographed a song and taught the boys one day during discipleship.  They loved it! By building trusting relationships, the boys feel more comfortable telling the staff if someone has abused or exploited them.  The staff has numerous trained counselors and social workers that can talk to both the boys and their families to help fix the problem or find the perpetrator and report him to the authorities.  The government is very corrupt in Cambodia but Hard Places has developed a good relationship with them and they are starting to see more changes and increased support. 



Tuk-tuks and motos (basically a mo-ped)
are the most common forms of  transportation. 

Only the wealthy people have cars.

In the afternoon, our team split into two groups and half would go to Wat Phnom, the main Buddhist temple in Phnom Penh, and the other half would go to the River Front.  I was on the River Front team and we would walk along the Mekong River, a large tourist area, and jump rope, kick a ball, work on puzzles, or play with play-dough with a group of 10 to 15 kids at a time.  Some of these kids lived on the streets but most were just out selling bracelets, books, or birdseed to tourists.  After we had a group of kids, we would sit down and do a little skit.  Our theme for the week was love so we had two caterpillars acting out love between friends, love between family, and love between a boy and a girl.  The butterfly, or God, gave them different scripture every day to help them understand that kind of love.  They laughed and laughed during the skits and on the last day, the kids even got to do some acting!  After the skit, we would do a craft that went along with the story.  Several of them brought their crafts back each day to show them off to other kids!  Each Kids Club we did lasted about 20 to 30 minutes and then we would walk a little further down the River Front and gather a new group of kids (and usually several from the last group that had walked with us down the River Front).  We ranged from 30 to 40 kids total each day between the three times we did Kids Club and the group that went to Wat Phnom had about the same number.  They did a more elaborate Kids Club with games and songs at the Wat because they stayed in the same place the entire time.

Our last Kids Club each day was here on the sidewalk in front of the Royal Palace.  We usually had a lot of adults watching at this location too.

 Along the RiverFront.  The Royal Palace would be facing the river from across the road, directly left of this picture.
My roommate, Katie, and I in front of Wat Phnom, the main Buddhist Temple in Phnom Penh.


The Pavilion at Wat Phnom where the other group held Kids Club each afternoon.

The River Front is a dangerous area for the kids because they are expected to bring money home and are easily tricked by men who offer them a large amount of money (usually like $5) to go with them.  The number of creepy, older white men wandering the River Front and hanging out at the restaurants and bars along the River Front is astounding.  It was so easy to be judgmental, give the stink eye, and wish each of them dead; but we were convicted by the unconditional love of Jesus and our mission to love our enemies.  It is also common for the families to exploit and sell their children because they are so desperate for money.  The Hard Places staff again works to build trusting relationships with the kids at the River Front to find out if they have been exploited and who is committing the crime to help get the child away from the situation or take action against the perpetrators through the police. 

On Thursday, we were able to watch and participate in the boys’ center’s monthly soccer tournament.  They even put together an American versus Cambodian staff game! Then on Saturday we took 138 kids (from the center, Wat Phnom Kids’ Club, and River Front Kids’ Club) to Dreamland, which is like a small amusement park.  All of us had a blast!  We spent some time at the market Saturday afternoon before we had to be at the airport to start our long trek back to America. 

Dreamland!

Because of the child protection policy, I am not going to post any pictures of the children.  
I will be glad to show them to you in person or via email though!


Some of the boys playing soccer during the tournament on Thursday.


This trip was probably one of the best experiences of my entire life and I am in awe of all that the Lord is doing currently and is going to do in Cambodia.  The staff at the boys’ center has a very daunting task ahead of them, as Hard Places is the only organization working in that specific high-trafficked area of Phnom Penh.  They are also planning to open a girls’ center in the next couple of months once they find the space and the funding is complete.  Please continue to pray for the Hard Places Community, the children, other organizations in Cambodia, and the nation as a whole.  I believe that one day every person in Cambodia is going to be jumping around and inviting the Holy Spirit to fill the atmosphere like the congregation of New Life does every Sunday morning.  If you want more information about Hard Places, please check out their website here.

Thank you again for your prayers and for partnering with me in doing the Lord’s work in Cambodia!!  More posts to come!




Wednesday, June 12, 2013

Prayers Needed!

So I am leaving tomorrow morning for Cambodia...what!?!? I can't believe this is actually happening and that the Lord is willing to use me to serve and minister to these broken people.  I have read three different books (all of which I would highly recommend: The Road to Lost Innocence, Terrify No More, and First, they Killed my Father) about Cambodia, its history, and the current state in terms of sexual exploitation of women and children.  It is absolutely sickening to read the countless stories of this form of slavery and the people that get away with it every single day.  Even with the knowledge I have gained, no one can be fully prepared for what my team is about to experience.

With that, we are in desperate need of prayer! There is going to be so much evil surrounding us and we will be feeling many different emotions as we meet children who have more or less been living in what we might consider hell on earth.  Our goal is to build relationships and show the love and hope of Christ.  We want to assist the Hard Places Community in the work that they do year round in Phnom Penh.  Below is a very specific and detailed prayer guide that one of my teammates put together.  It will give you general prayer requests, day by day requests, and requests from each team member.  Pray that God would do UNIMAGINABLE things in and through us and the Hard Places Community.  Can't wait to update you all after I return!
Alyssa

Prayers for Fondren Church Short-term Mission Group to the Hard Places Community in Phnom Penh, Cambodia
Prayers to be praying at all times:
      Pray for unity, understanding, patience, kindness, and perseverance for our team. 
      Pray that we, as a community and as individuals, are constantly reminded of how to serve each other and the world around us. 
      Pray 1 John 4:7 over us each day as we seek to teach this verse through our words and actions! 
      Pray that we are diligent and manage our time well, so that we may make the most of each day. 
      Pray for the children at the HPC, that they open their hearts and minds to our teachings; that they come to understand the restoration offered them by Jesus; and that they will experience Christ-like love through our daily interactions. 
      Pray over our periods of planning and debriefing—that we are moved by the Holy Spirit to speak and act out of Godly wisdom. 
      Pray for the HPC permanent staff, that we are able to assist and serve them in their duties. 
      Pray against spiritual warfare—internal and external; please pray the armor of Christ over us every day! 
      And pray also for safety as we travel to and from Cambodia, as well as throughout the city once we’re there. 
      Also, praise Jesus for the miracles He will perform in our lives and the lives of others through this mission trip.  Pray that our efforts bear fruit that points back to our Creator!
Specific prayer requests from each member:
Drew Mellon (leader):  “Please pray that I will lead the team to unity with boldness.”
Ally Pace Mellon:  “Pray that I practice patience in difficult situations, especially after experiencing serious jet lag.  Pray that I love those who have been abused, and that I learn to love those who abused them.”
Brent Johnston (leader):  “I ask for prayer in seeking a servant’s heart, that I would walk in the Spirit with boldness and confidence.  Pray that I receive new revelation from the Lord about my call in ministry.  Pray also for the safety of my family while I’m away.”
Scott White:  “Please pray over my time teaching.  Pray that I will have understanding of the staff members’ learning levels and styles.  Pray also that I will have time to truly invest myself in them.”
Deborah White:  Pray that I will have wisdom and discernment to know how to minister to the Cambodian and American staff as I teach ESL. I will also be working with the brothel men on their Tuk Tuk tour script. Pray that I will relate well with all and not be overwhelmed with the task of teaching and adjusting to the culture. Pray that [Scott and I] will have unity in our marriage for the three weeks we will be ministering there.”
Cissy Prewitt:  “Pray for family unity between me and my two girls.  Pray against false expectations so that the love of Christ may show through me to its fullest and in everything I do.”
Gwynn Prewitt:  “Pray for safety and health, specifically for my headaches and my mom’s kidney stones.  Pray that we remain pain free.  Pray that I won’t be focused on the hard conditions but rather on how I can be a servant.”
Grace Prewitt:  “Pray for safety over the entire team.  I also your prayers for our team that we will all have rewarding experiences, that our souls will be forever changed.”
Morgan Parker:  “Please pray over this trip and how it can impact my future.  Pray that it will open doors that need to be opened if the Lord is in fact calling me to do long-term missions.  I ask protection through prayer from the lies and schemes of Satan--please pray that my trust is completely founded on the Truth of Christ.  And pray that this trip will change me.  In every way.”
Kelsey Marx:  “Pray that I will be receptive to the Lord’s will for me each day.  Pray for discernment and wisdom in navigating the chaos of our riverfront ministry.  And pray against distraction—that I may be mentally, emotionally, and spiritually present at all times.”
Eric Henderson:  “Please pray obedience over me, as well as a steadfast heart.  Pray that I will yield to the guidance of the Holy Spirit instead of my own willingness.  Pray for my devotion to the cause of Christ as I move throughout the week.  Pray for me to have a job upon returning and a proper living situation in Jackson.  And lastly, please pray that I deny myself & carry my cross without wavering.  I don’t want to cheat myself out of anything the Lord is trying to show me or give me or even take away!
Katie Acker:  “Pray that I would have boldness in sharing my faith in Christ with the kids while also loving them as Christ loves them.  That I would gain clarity on what my next step is in ministry and where Christ wants me to go.  Pray protection over my family and friends back home, that I would not worry or be anxious about what’s happening at home.  And I ask prayers over my attentiveness to God’s voice so that I will walk in obedience during the trip.
Alyssa Nobles:  Pray that I would see the hope through the evil and despair in the people that we encounter. Also, pray that I would be able to share with others back home about my experiences while honoring the dignity of those in Cambodia.”
Prayers for each day:
Thursday, June 13, & Friday, June 14
      Please pray over our travels! 
      Pray for safety, health, rest, and peaceful hearts. 
      Pray that we (and our luggage and supplies!) make all of our flight connections and that our bodies adjust quickly to the time differences!  If you want to pray over our specific flights, we’d really appreciate that, too!
Flight schedule
Jackson to Dallas:  Leaving 7:10 AM 6/13 on American Airlines, arriving 8:35 AM
Dallas to Seoul, South Korea:  Leaving 12:10 PM on Korean Air, arriving Friday 6/14, 4:30 PM (1:30 AM CST)
Seoul, South Korea to Phnom Penh, Cambodia:  Leaving 6:40 PM 6/14, arriving 10:05 PM  (6:05 AM CST)
Saturday, June 15 & Sunday, June 16
      Please pray that we feel rested and adjusted to Indochina Time (ICT)!  Over the weekend we will be debriefed on Cambodian culture and history, specifically that which has been affected by the Khmer Rouge.  During these two days, we will visit the “killing fields” as well as a museum that showcases the horrible story of this regime. 
      Pray that in so seeing these places our hearts are further broken for the injustices that have occurred in this country.  Pray that through these experiences we will have a better understanding of the Khmer peoples’ hearts and thought processes.
      We’ll also be attending a church service with The Hard Places Community Sunday morning (somewhere around 7PM CST), so please be praying that we’re well-rested and attentive to the Holy Spirit during this time!
Monday, June 17—Thursday, June 20
Our four full ministry days will look something like this:
Wake-up early; breakfast at the hotel; go to the Boys’ Center for morning worship and VBS with the kids; break for lunch & planning; afternoon ministry (Kids’ Club, river front, teaching English, etc.); dinner; debriefing, prayer, and worship with the team; and finally, sleep!  For Kids’ Club, we’ve planned four lessons on four different kinds of love, respectively:  Monday—Friend love; Tuesday—Family love; Wednesday—Romantic love; Thursday—God’s love.  Through our time at Kids’ Club we hope to demonstrate the difference between how God wants us to love our friends, family members, and significant others, and how the world teaches us to treat others.  We also hope to show that God’s love for us is greater than any other kind of love we can give or receive. 
      Please be praying over this ministry with us! 
      Pray that the kids learn how to love one another, as well as how they should be loved—what love is and isn’t according to God’s wisdom. 
      Pray that these lessons will impact their lives in big ways—that they can understand the injustice of abuse as well as the abolishment of shame, fear, anger, and other strongholds through the acceptance of Jesus’ loving forgiveness.
Friday, June 21
            Friday will look a lot like our other days with the exception that we’ll have an end-0f-the-week celebration during Kids’ Club instead of an organized lesson-period. 
      Pray that in this time the kids will experience uninhibited happiness! 
      Pray that the children will understand our Christ-like joy for them and our hope for their lives! 
      Praise the Lord for this experience of sincere fellowship through singing and dancing and laughter! 
      And, finally, may we all praise Him for His unfailing love and the rest that it gives our souls.
Saturday, June 22, & Sunday, June 23
Saturday we will be spending time with our team in Phnom Penh before catching our flight late that night.  Though our schedule is tentative for this day, it will most definitely include daring each other to eat bags of fried crickets. 
      Therefore, pray for our health and well-being. 
      Pray that we use this day to process the week before it—all the blessings and God-ordained conversations and heartaches and so forth. 
      Pray that we’re still focused on furthering God’s Kingdom even if we’re not preparing and directing mission activities. 
      And pray that we’re able to get everything together for a timely departure.  Also, please pray over our specific flights:
Return flight schedule
Phnom Penh to Seoul:  Leaving 11:20 PM Saturday, 6/22 (9:20 AM CST), arriving 6:35 AM, Sunday 6/23 (3:35 PM CST 6/22)
Seoul to Dallas:  Leaving 11:00 AM (7PM CST 6/22), arriving 9:35 AM CST Sunday 6/23
Dallas to Jackson:  Leaving 6:35 PM, arriving 7:55 PM


Thank you so much for praying over us during this time!  We’re so very thankful for you and your faith.  We could not do this ministry without you!

Wednesday, May 22, 2013

Year One...check!

Today marked the end of my first year of teaching.  We had a fun day of getting excited for fourth grade, dancing, watching movies, and eating LOTS of chips!  The buses started honking as they drove away and we cheered and watched the kids hang half way out the window to say goodbye to us.  The tears started falling.  Not sure if I started crying because I am going to miss my kids or just that the most challenging year of my life is over (probably a little of both).  My dad texted me this morning, "Both your life and theirs is better for what has been accomplished"...I couldn't agree more!  The Lord has taught me so much about faith, peace, patience, and contentment over these last nine months.  I have also learned a lot about who I am as a teacher and the kind of teacher I do not want to be (usually through mistakes I made)!  My students also learned so much...I cannot believe they are going to be in the fourth grade!!  Our data was pretty good (math was awesome!!) and I am anxious to get state testing scores back over the summer.

Ahhh...summer! Here at last.  Now I truly understand the meaning of that quote in my parent's bathroom: "The best part about being a teacher-June, July, and August" (minus the August though).  After two days of post-planning, I will be heading home to celebrate Becky's wedding.  Then spending lots of quality time with my family, including a trip to the beach!  On June 13, I depart for a ten day mission trip to Cambodia through my church in Jackson.  So excited for this opportunity and also incredibly grateful for all of you who have supported my trip both prayerfully and financially.  My trip is fully funded plus some extra dollars to help the team!  After that, I plan on spending the rest of the summer in Rome making a little extra money, taking a class online, and preparing for my next year in Hazlehurst.

Speaking of my next year, I have some very exciting news!  I will be teaching ESL!  In case you are not familiar, that means I will be teaching English to students who are learning it as their second language!  All of the 36 (PK-12) ESL students at Hazlehurst are Hispanic and I actually got to meet many of them and their families tonight.  It has been almost two years since I really used my Spanish so I have a lot of brushing up to do this summer because the families will depend on me for a lot.  I am so excited about this opportunity and know that the Lord opened this door for a reason.  I am also slightly nervous with the responsibility of teaching these kids English and working with the families.  I will definitely have to devote a lot of time to it and I know there will be various challenges throughout the year.  But I continue to hold onto the Lord's promise in Philippians 1:6:
"Being confident of this, that He who began a good work in you, will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus."

Be prepared for my next post to be full of exciting summer adventures!

Some of them even threw candy to us! 
Missing 6 on the last day but still a crazy group! #barewalls